My name is Dustin Ver Beek and I’m the guy to blame for the Un-Better Half Blog.
I’m 36 and reside in Zeeland, Michigan with my wife Lindy, and three lovely kids, Brooklyn (age 7), and twins Samantha and Maxwell (age 2).
My wife Lindy has terminal stage IV cancer. Her breast cancer metastasized to her brain in 2010. In late July, she was given a year to live. This is where I try to process life and my thoughts. In a sense, this is a little part of my brain online for you to objectify. These thoughts are raw and unedited. I do not attend to offend, rather, capture the emotions that we/I are feeling as we live with cancer. Forgive me, but I don’t sugar coat what I’m feeling—it’s not part of my nature.
To pay the bills, I work in E-marketing for Herman Miller. I’ve been involved in E-business in one form or another since Al Gore invented the Internet. 
Things I Really Like
My 17.3 inch touch screen Dell Studio Laptop (yes, I’m a proud PC)
Our Samsung 3D Bluray Player
Immersive WWII video games
Our Herman Miller Eames Lounge Chair
OpenOffice.org (who needs Microsoft Office anyway?)
Lindy’s Nikon D5000 DSLR
The Blue Embody Chair I sit in every day at work
Pandora
Bluelounge Cable Box
About anything wireless
